Why can Women and Men Unite and Just love each other?Are there gender forums for unity/love between genders?

I had to recently write a term paper on the History of The Womens movement and Feminism. As a relatively young male, It opened my eyes to The Gender Gap. Many Feminists claim women have been oppressed by men and Feminism stands for equality for both sexes.I respect that. However, there are a small minority of so called radical feminists who hate men and call men "pigs". I can understand their bitterness because some men have been oppressive to women throughout history. However, I also learned that there is a growing mens movement backlash of angry bitter men who fight for Mens Right(MRA"S) and issues like "Father's rights, and call some women bad names like "goldiggers" As a spiritual male, who beleieves in the oneness of Humanity that we are all human beings regardless of race and gender, Why cant men and women unite and realize we are all human thers good and bad in all and men and women need each other.We are differently wired but we should appreciate our differences and our masculine and feminine gender traits complement and help each other.Men and women should love each other and this included feminists and Mra's.Stop the gender hating theres too much wars in the world already between races and countries,we do not need a gender war. I would like to join a blog or group that stresses healing between the sexes and dialogue and unity between men and women where we can even disagree with respect.Anyone recommen a good unifying gender blog?or forum,organization?