Online get-togethers for secret strippers?

I'm a secret cross-dresser and an equally secret stripper; it excites me to wear women's clothes and then pretend I'm letting one or more men see me taking them off. I'd like to share secrets about these pastimes (online only) with other people who have similar interests. Are there any online get-togethers of any kind (chat, forums, or whatever) for people with this specialized interest?